(Ed.-This is the last post for the week, ’cause work is sending me out of town!)
It is Reverend Nat’s last weekend. As you might suspect, that makes me feel a little pensive, and that pensiveness is on top of a great deal of pensiveness I’ve been feeling for weeks now.
This is the Nonna’s Fruitcake, which is a freakin dynamite beverage. Warm, with cinnamon and rum hints, the fruit qualities shining through, this is the kind of thing I’m really going to miss, even though I’m far from a cider connoisseur. That Portland should miss.
Knowing that something else will rise is, at the moment, smaller comfort than it should be. This taproom near my house opened in June, maybe? I barely got to get to know it. There’s still clearly unfinished, unused space where production was going to go. Hell, on my walk in, I passed by an Indian food truck that smelled AMAZING and my first thought was: well, fuck. I didn’t get a chance to have cider and Indian.
Which is a little silly but our thoughts are not always our own. As I understated, I’ve been pensive for a few weeks but the truth is, pensive has just recently replaced anxious for how I’ve been feeling.
The anxiety has been a genuine, bonegnawing brainweasel for about a month and it has been awful. Really. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone, because it is entirely fucking unreasonable. It is like dealing with a Terminator, except instead of being a mechanical force coming to kill you, it is an emotional force that exists to destabilize you and there is no reasoning with it, no weapon that can destroy it.
To hell with everything about that.
I’m fortunate: I have access to some amazing friends and supporters and finally, therapy. That’s right: started therapy this week. All my other tools for management failed. Bring in the professionals.
Am I OK? No; I just started therapy. It’s going to take a little time to get to where I want to go.
But do I feel better about things than I have in weeks? Yes I do. I feel like I am asserting what control I can over the work I do to make myself a better person to be around.
Am I still being struck by unreasonable bullshit from a 7 pound piece of meat we don’t entirely understand? Yes. That too.
Which, I really do have to be amused by, right? There’s so much I can say that I do understand about the world and its underpinnings, but when it comes to even groking my very self, I have to admit there is a current that is entirely beyond me.
Which isn’t an inept metaphor for the world, too. The more I get I know about things, the more I see the vast space called “Here Be Dragons”.
I’m glad I don’t have to face that space alone. Hope you don’t, either.